Divorce can cause accidental child abuse

This is a must read for couples with children, who are divorcing or ending their relationship.

As a counsellor with many years experience, I have been witness to the collateral damage to
children in these circumstances. The point of this article is that couples can part without
damaging the children or at the very least minimise it.

The actual word abuse has many bad connotations and is not really defined in dictionaries
for what it really is, only examples of the results are given.

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The Power of our Feelings

Feelings control our lives, they control what we say or don’t say, also what we do or don’t do , feelings also affect our attitudes and all decisions we make, so they are very  important to lives , hence we need to know more about them. Feelings can be positive or negative (unwanted), constructive or destructive.   Here in lies the key to finding happiness and success in the various areas of our lives be it, at work, at home, or in our social life.

Think about this fact, we can’t actually see our feelings, but we sure experience them. Good or positive feelings are fine, they feel expansive, light and enjoyable, the spice of life so to say. Conversely the unwanted negative feelings are another matter and the reason for this article. Negative feelings feel heavy, restrictive and they often stop us doing what we would like to do which can and  does result in unhappiness and failure in our lives.

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The Search for Emotional Health

There is much historical data available concerning the handling of so-called “mental health” issues, which term is derived from the idea that the root cause of emotional problems lies in the mind. The word “mental” is of course an English language expression coined in comparatively recent centuries. From the middle ages Lunatic or Insane asylums were common as was the exorcising of Demons and in the more “enlightened” times Frontal lobotomy surgery, Insulin Shock Therapies and Electro Convulsive Shock treatments. Exorcising demons was an attempt to handle cause, but apart from that, it is arguable as to whether the other therapies were addressing manifestation or cause. As an aside, to me, all these treatments were a manifestation of the frustration experienced by the authorities in the mental health field because of their inability to achieve significant worthwhile results.

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How To Relieve Stress

How To Relieve Stress: NOW you can Relieve stress, then quickly regain your energy and enthusiasm for all parts of your life. Your satisfaction is guaranteed with this completely “NEW “and unique none intrusive Method. Amazing results are achieved easily and with appointment times available to suit your schedule, this makes it a boom for busy people from all walks of life who need a recharge.( See our unique Skype sessions) If you know or even suspect that you may be suffering from the damaging effects of stress ,READ ON, this data is for you .Find out exactly what causes stress and more importantly , How To Relieve Stress.

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A New Slant on Personal Productivity (Success)

Imagine an effective, yet simple, straight forward method which is guaranteed to BOOST your Personal Productivity (success) in all areas of your life. It is available now.

You can say goodbye to indecision, procrastination, frustration, stress and any other feeling that is stopping you getting things done, then be able to enjoy satisfaction and confidence.( Below, see examples of happy clients who experienced this Method)

Research has discovered that Personal Productivity has” Four Vital Elements” namely 1 The DECISION to do 2 Actually STARTING 3 PERSISTING  Then 4 COMPLETING or FINISHING it. Every activity which ends successfully has involved these four elements. Conversely cases where Personal Productivity is low or very difficult, has as its cause, an absence or breakdown in one of these four elements.

To briefly explain the positives and negatives on these four elements, which are essential to all Personal Productivity (Success).

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